'My sister and I are having a baby' says Australian man
“Call
me selfish, call me vain, call me gross – but I can’t think of anything
more spine-tinglingly spectacular than finding cheeky glimmers of my
parents in the face and personality of my child,” Leighton-Dore tells Mamamia.
Leighton-Dore admits that even his mother has had difficultly wrapping her head around the arrangement.
“My
mother still gets a little confused when she tries to explain the
process to concerned friends and family. She still grimaces kindly. She
still tilts her head disconcertingly to the side as she clarifies, with
caution, how her only two children plan on one day making her only
grandchild – erm, together.”
But Leighton-Dore doesn’t understand what the big issue is.
While
his sister plans to donate her egg to the process, she will not carry
the child and the couple will instead undergo IVF treatments.
“She won’t be carrying the baby – just offering up the bun for another yet-to-be-determined woman’s oven,” he jokes.
The plan was hatched at a family function after the two had indulged in a few drinks.
“To
my surprise, she squealed in delight at the prospect. ‘Let’s do it!’
She said, before I was forced to explain that I’m currently a little
busy tap-dancing along the poverty line to actually take formulated
steps in making another dependent human being. This was all theoretical,
this was laying the groundwork – this was planning for the future.”
Unsurprisingly,
many have criticized Leighton-Dore’s intensions suggesting he adopt or
seek out a less controversial option, but he disagrees.
“Without
devaluing those who choose to adopt or go down one of many alternative
IVF pathways, I want a child who can see where he or she came from when
they look up at their parents. And yeah, our family story might have a
few extra narrative beats, a few extra laughs, and a few extra
challenges. But one thing’s for sure, when the time comes – it’ll always be told with unconditional love.”
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